Blessings can come in many disguises and not always pleasant ones. If you look back over your life, do you see how certain events took place, not the way you expected, yet put you on a more positive path? Many of us won’t learn from this, we will resist nudges, signs, gut instinct and fight tooth and nail for what ‘we believe’, (our limiting beliefs/ego), is the best for us and consciously repeat patterns of self sabotage, eg; going back to an abusive partner, attracting another, settling for a dead end job, this is usually to do with having little self worth and not believing one is worthy of deserving better.
When you take action based on fear, desperation or self doubt you will always be unhappy and unfulfilled!
I’ve experienced and lived it! I know exactly how it works and why I was pushed to the limits to finally do something different. That ‘something different‘ was doing the opposite to what I had always done – simple! Now, the comparison is so evident, I will never go back to living, thinking, feeling in any negative, desperate, fearful way again. This is living consciously, living your life with purpose.
Rejection is divine protection
We go through life’s challenges grasping on to the drama, pain, sadness, grief, betrayal, anger, trauma, shock, because it is what we are used to, and crazy as it sounds, can make us feel safe, it’s all we have known – resulting in a victim mentality. Often, not consciously, we replay the same story over and over in our heads, empowering the story by repeating it to others. This actually disempowers us and empowers the negative emotional charge causing physical damage, stress and dis-ease to our bodies.
You are only healed from a traumatic past event when you can talk about it without having any emotional attachment, when an emotional charge no longer exists behind your words. This isn’t easy to do and can take years of self inner work.
Tools and techniques are available to rapidly shift this stuck energy from these memories.
These events did happen to teach you something but that lesson won’t be apparent until you let go of the emotional attachment. Do you want change, would you like to let go of the mental torture and transform your life?
NLP techniques used in a relaxed state can reframe these past events, resulting in miraculous energy shifts. You will find yourself more confident, setting healthy boundaries, empowered, life in general becomes more positive, you will attract new opportunities and feel a much deeper sense of self worth.
If you want more information on how this works, book your free consultation with me.