Neighbours New To Working From Home

Setting Healthy Boundaries!

The current climate forced many 9-5 office employees to work from home. I’ve worked online from home for many years. It’s great and freeing, especially if you work for yourself.

Sadly, I’ve been shocked at the disrespect of these, ‘LET’S PLAY CEO’ homeworkers. Recently, walking along the canal, one sunny morning, passing a block of apartments, a sonorous male voice of self importance, reverberated from an open window, his neighbours and the whole world being forced to listen in to his business calls, even the swans and ducks had to endure this verbal disruption. Is it an ego thing?

I live in a modernish terrace of 4, fabulous neighbours except for the one in between me and the end. At each end we have 2 young couples, one with a 5 year old, directly next to me and the other couple with a very cute 8 month old baby, currently finding her voice. Such a happy little soul. Two middle aged single women in the middle, myself and the one in between.

Through the first year of the pandemic, during all that lovely weather, we sat out and chatted through the fences, drinking the odd glass of wine, G&T, barbecues lit, a lovely atmosphere into the evenings, except for the one in between me and the end.

The young men at each end happily help out with small home maintenance jobs, we always ask each other if we need anything when taking a trip to the shops. We courteously bring each others bins in without thinking – it’s just a wonderful neighbourly relationship, in a very peaceful neighbourhood, but you always have that one don’t you??

We’ve had some lovely sunny days again, and I have worked outside under the parasol, wearing earphones so that I’m not subjecting anyone else to my business. When I have zoom calls, I go inside to protect my clients privacy and respect my neighbours rights to sit out and enjoy their gardens. But not the one in between me and the end.

The window wide open, to her makeshift ‘call centre’, her customers/team members on loudspeaker and herself shouting back to them in her ‘Jeremy Kyle guest’ fashion.

Her direct neighbours, me and the couple with the young baby have already been subjected to her extremely loud sexual romps with Tinder candidates, banging against probably every wall in the house, and on a daily basis we endure her running round her small house, like a trapped wild boar, either that or she is attached to a bungee cord? We daren’t complain about this part of her behaviour in case she makes life worse for us. She slams doors to the degree our houses tremble, the neighbours with the baby told me the baby monitor once fell off the shelf.

The one in between is early fifties, petite, blonde, botox, hair extensions, fake tan, lip fillers, Tinder, drugs, alcohol and shouts like a fish wife, and wants fake grass in her garden, (I’m not against fake grass, it’s just another item to the list of FAKE). I’m not really in the habit of judging people but when you live next door to someone who is very invasive and affects your daily life, you can’t help judge and wonder what the hell is going on in their heads.

I was sitting out one lovely warm morning, enjoying my breakfast when the ‘call centre’ opened up, it was 8.30 am. I let the one in between air her 2 way conversations for a while, then called her and asked politely if she could close her window and do her calls in private. The window slammed shut and I thought the issue was resolved and appreciated she had taken my request on board.

A few days later, a Saturday morning, we were blessed with more warm sunny weather and the ‘call centre’ opened up to the public once again. So having her number, I text her and politely asked again to close her window. You could literally hear every word being said. She came to the window and shouted back at me, “I have to work from home…..”, so I suggested she open the windows at the front of her house and let the air flow through. The window slammed shut and I breathed a sigh of relief.

Then the inevitable happened, my dog barked. She barks probably 3 times a day, especially if another dog is being walked at the back of the garden. I knew what was coming……….

The window suddenly flew open and a hideous voice screamed,

“You shut your dog up!!….. I have to put up with your dog barking and that screaming baby next door – I have to work from home and need my window open, if you don’t like it call the council”.

She had previously told me she hated the birds singing, they annoy her, so we are dealing with a very low vibrational being here and yes I know, she needs a lot of love and nurturing. I have done some work on her, sent her love, for the highest good of all but not sure it is making a difference? We shall see.

So the 2 way phone conversation continued for the whole world to hear, and very possibly she is breaching her employer’s data and privacy protection regulations.

I decided to set healthy boundaries, not just for me but for my lovely neighbours too and nip this in the bud. I went inside and scrolled on my iPad for some lovely Shamanic Positive Healing Vibes, Steel Tongue Drum 432H music on YouTube, it is so calming, and just beautiful. I connected my wireless speaker, took it out into the garden and turned up the volume. I courteously texted my other neighbours to let them in on why the music was so loud. They absolutely loved it. The neighbours with the baby asked if I could turn the volume higher, they found it so soothing and the baby had fallen asleep.

It wasn’t long before the one in between slammed her window shut and so far she hasn’t disrupted the peace. Once satisfied, I in turn, reduced the volume, then eventually turned it off.

Sometimes you just have to set healthy boundaries!!

Are you assertive enough? Do you set healthy boundaries? Or do you suffer in silence? If you feel people take advantage of your good nature and want to feel more empowered, being able to stand your ground without caving in, hypnotherapy is a great tool to help you with this. Book a free consultation and let’s have a chat.

NHS – Natural Health Service – is it on the way?

Early 2000, I held a clairvoyant/medium event for my friends. The lady reader gave some accurate information for my guests. It was only polite of me to be the last of 10 to have my reading.

She picked up on my holistic business, which was struggling back then, as not many people were open and educated to alternative health, preferring to spend a few pounds on prescription drugs, giving instant pain relief, not addressing the root cause of their ailment.

All those years ago, she told me never to give up on my healing gifts and techniques as one day in the not too distant future, the NHS would collapse and we healers and Light Workers, would be in demand, as humanity would turn to natural forms of healing.

Energy Healing

Is this happening now????? Will we have a Natural Health Service?

I’ve had my dealings with breast cancer and watching my Dad and others suffer previously from the conventional treatment, I knew I would heal myself if ever I was diagnosed.

In 2010, I was diagnosed and accepted radiotherapy, believing it was the lesser of the 2 evils, now realising, radiotherapy is permanent damage, where as chemotherapy can be flushed out. Both cause secondary cancers, patients becoming stuck in the vicious cycle, believing they have no other choice, a 4% chance of surviving this barbaric treatment, which we so readily accept.

Have you ever considered that 1:3 people are now diagnosed with cancer, I remember it being 1/8 and yet technology has advanced so much, still no cure for cancer?? £Billions of our money donated, from grief and desperation, for cancer research, still no cure??? Have you noticed a pattern? Once in this cycle of treatment, very few people survive longer than 12 years, more tumours, more treatment until your body is so sick and frail. Time to wake up people!!

Truth and evidence exposed by brave doctors and scientists, has been censored on big tech platforms, many have risked their lives and reputation speaking out. Thousands diagnosed, have healed themselves by changing their diet, lifestyle, removing stress from their lives, healing past traumas, shifting to the holistic energy healing techniques. But they’re not allowed to speak about it. Natural cures don’t make money and you can’t patent nature!

Thousands live good quality lives with ‘cancer’. Kris Carr, is looking amazing, embracing life in a magical way and still has stage 4 cancer, being diagnosed over a decade ago. She has cancer – it doesn’t have her!!

So what if most cancer diagnosis’ really aren’t that bad? I discovered a small lump in my left breast, could have just been a cyst, how was I to know? No different really than taking your car to a dodgy mechanic, you knowing nothing about mechanics. Maybe I pulled the short straw. I wasn’t suffering with any pain or discomfort, in fact I was feeling the best ever in my life. I trusted Oncology and their ‘expertise’, so I went along with the lumpectomy and 21 days of radiation, which did knock me out and I suffered horrific burns at the end of the treatment.

6 years later, again, feeling perfectly fine, living in France at this time, my routine mammogram was due, which I refused and demanded an MRI without the contrast dye. More information was leaking out through the internet, I had been doing a lot of research, it didn’t make sense to me that you would repeatedly put poison into your body and/or nuke it?

Back to the car example again, if you had a small piece of rust on your car you wouldn’t cover the whole vehicle with acid to treat it, would you??? The MRI dye put into your body is toxic, radioactive and contains a metal called gladolinium. Mammograms give off radiation and are not reliable, I actually proved this point.

3 large tumours showed up, lying deep in my left breast. My French doctor who performed the biopsy, was very open and told me they were a result from the radiotherapy I had in 2010 – see where this is going?? I was asked to have a mammogram to see if these tumours would show up and I agreed to this for the sake of other women. THE MAMMOGRAM DETECTED NOTHING!!

Now, when I look back, could I have lived with those tumours, were they just nuked cells from the burns? There was no sign of the cancer spreading. My oncologist was shocked when, I TOLD HIM, I would take 2 weeks to make a decision on a mastectomy, against his wish to operate immediately. Hmmmm why do they rush you? Those tumours could have been there 5 years at least, how would another 2 weeks make such a difference?

I did decide to go ahead with multiple surgeries, mastectomy, reduction on the other side and reconstruction using my own muscle and fat from my back, tummy and thighs. The reason being, I would be free of these tumours, so mentally that would help me heal faster on an emotional level, as I knew how to deal with the emotional side.

Many lessons have been learned through this personal journey, more information gained as time went by, knowing what I know now about the medical profession, I would not have gone along with the surgery.

The surgery has left me with smaller boobs, which I am happy about but I do have constant discomfort on my left side and because of the scar tissue I need regular massage to break down the lymphatic fluid build up.

Yoga has been a great help, I’m no expert, I just follow a sequence of stretches on a daily basis. Fresh fruit and veg, organic when possible, no wheat or dairy. Plenty of juicing and filtered water to keep my body alkaline and no stress – I totally surrendered stress and fear 3 years ago, it’s amazing and miraculous how life carries you through effortlessly. Along with lots of lovely meditation and getting out into nature.

The sad thing is, there are wonderful, amazing doctors and nurses out there who really care about humans. It isn’t their fault. The hierarchy of the medical profession know exactly what they have been doing, deceiving and betraying us all. We have been underestimated though!

I know we’re winning and reclaiming back our power on all levels. We will no longer depend and rely on these corrupt governments, medical and financial establishments. We’re waking up! New technology and natural cures, suppressed from us, will soon be released, until then stay as healthy as you can, listen to your body, tune in, it knows what you want and need. Life is going to be amazing!

Please reach out if you want any guidance, hypnotherapy is a great tool to get yourself into the right mindset. It’s important to let go of any negative, lower vibrational emotions. Reiki also helps to accelerate the healing process. Both these therapies can also be done online.