Are Past Experiences Still Haunting You?

Blessings can come in many disguises and not always pleasant ones. If you look back over your life, do you see how certain events took place, not the way you expected, yet put you on a more positive path? Many of us won’t learn from this, we will resist nudges, signs, gut instinct and fight tooth and nail for what ‘we believe’, (our limiting beliefs/ego), is the best for us and consciously repeat patterns of self sabotage, eg; going back to an abusive partner, attracting another, settling for a dead end job, this is usually to do with having little self worth and not believing one is worthy of deserving better.

When you take action based on fear, desperation or self doubt you will always be unhappy and unfulfilled!

I’ve experienced and lived it! I know exactly how it works and why I was pushed to the limits to finally do something different. That ‘something different‘ was doing the opposite to what I had always done – simple! Now, the comparison is so evident, I will never go back to living, thinking, feeling in any negative, desperate, fearful way again. This is living consciously, living your life with purpose.

Rejection is divine protection

We go through life’s challenges grasping on to the drama, pain, sadness, grief, betrayal, anger, trauma, shock, because it is what we are used to, and crazy as it sounds, can make us feel safe, it’s all we have known – resulting in a victim mentality. Often, not consciously, we replay the same story over and over in our heads, empowering the story by repeating it to others. This actually disempowers us and empowers the negative emotional charge causing physical damage, stress and dis-ease to our bodies.

Empower Yourself

You are only healed from a traumatic past event when you can talk about it without having any emotional attachment, when an emotional charge no longer exists behind your words. This isn’t easy to do and can take years of self inner work.

Tools and techniques are available to rapidly shift this stuck energy from these memories.

These events did happen to teach you something but that lesson won’t be apparent until you let go of the emotional attachment. Do you want change, would you like to let go of the mental torture and transform your life?

NLP techniques used in a relaxed state can reframe these past events, resulting in miraculous energy shifts. You will find yourself more confident, setting healthy boundaries, empowered, life in general becomes more positive, you will attract new opportunities and feel a much deeper sense of self worth.

If you want more information on how this works, book your free consultation with me.

Fear Attracts More To Be Fearful Of

What are you afraid of?

How many years have you struggled with fear, self doubt, obeying the system, being attacked from all sides? Finances, career, relationships?

Surrendering and letting go of the fear, the persistence, burning yourself out – to simply trusting and allowing, that whatever created us, does have our back and will provide for us – does work!!

SIMPLY A CHOICE

WHOAAA, scary stuff! It means stepping out of your comfort zone, eliminating old patterns and an outdated belief system, which you were programmed with, (it wasn’t all your fault). It’s challenging, adventurous, and so very empowering……. it also brings you peace!

I double dare you to let go of that, which is no longer making you happy or serving your highest good!

When I look back at the stress and fear I have put myself through, believing I was doing ‘the right thing‘, I could have just let it go! It took me many years, with nothing more to lose, to take this leap of faith and put my trust into something that I couldn’t physically see, touch, hear, smell, taste.

The instant I made this decision to fully trust and allow, the most incredible events began to happen. Financial abundance came in from areas I never expected, I effortlessly won trips all over the world, with a company I was promoting and travelled to places I never thought I would visit. I continue to go with the flow and let life lead me, but it must give me joy. Joy is my discernment gauge, anything less I question. Everything I need is provided for me in some form or fashion. More than often, better than expected.

I feel I was being prepared for what is happening in the world today, ready to help others deal with similar life challenges. With the whole globe in fear and uncertainty, I’ve sailed through 2020 to this present day, with a chilled, carefree relaxed attitude. I even attracted a great group of likeminded people into my life, together, rebelling against all restrictions, having a great time!

Early morning, we would meet up, shoes off, to ground ourselves, (grounding is great for inflammation and releasing stagnant energy), a few warm up stretching exercises, sprinting, ending with a boogie, showing passers-by we have no fear and neither do we care about the Bogey V!

Barefoot Reggae

Twelve of us invaded a restaurant, each and everyone of us exempt from the mask wearing, and not explaining ourselves or showing justification either. Hugging as we greeted each other. The manager almost had a heart attack, (we gave him a big tip). Other diners watched, some giggling, they knew it was all ridiculous. Anyone so frightened of the Bogey V, wouldn’t have been in a restaurant.

We had parties at each other’s houses, sneaking home in the early hours. One of our friends, a professional singer, brought her mic and speaker. Belting out, “Young Hearts, Run Free” and many more 70s/80s/90s dance hits. No complaints from neighbours.

We would go cycling, even my 80 year old mum got on a bike, the first time since she was fourteen. After, we would all pile into another friend’s house for a game of table tennis.

Never once did we attract anything negative to stop us having fun. We weren’t put on this earth to suffer! When you live at a frequency of joy, love and laughter you attract more joy, love and laughter into your life. And the Bogey V can’t touch you!

It serves no purpose to carry remorse or regret, life lessons need to be learnt and some of us need a slap in the face, because we keep doing, what we believe to be ‘the right thing‘. Waking up, to no longer tolerating being manipulated or taken advantage of, it all happens in divine timing.

It’s a choice, just a choice to stop giving your power away to fear, and control from those who don’t have your best interests at heart.

Forget all the expensive life changing courses – no matter what your circumstances, just make a choice to be happy and never look back. If anyone around you doesn’t like this positive change in you, then you don’t need them in your life, let them go too. The universe abhors a vacuum, that space will be filled with something/someone better, matching your new frequency.